Belated Sunday Stealing

Bev at Sunday Stealing puts together a bunch of questions so that those of us bloggers who’d like to tap something out but are not sure what to say, can be helped along. My next blog is in draft mode, and will be a LOT more confronting to read, so something lighter seems appropriate for a Monday.

1. what you did you do today?

As much as I adore our new nine month old rescue puppy Fern, her tendency to wake up at 6:15am is the time of day that my adoration is severely tested.  I stagger around to find some clothes to put on and let her out into the garden to relieve herself.  Unlike our previous dog Felix, who would do his essential ablutions and then come back inside and go back to sleep until 9am, which is when we would then go for a walk, she is UP, ready for ACTION and usually wants to dismember all or any of her so-called ‘indestructable’ dog toys. LOUDLY AND VIOLENTLY.

At the time of typing this, I’m waiting for a technician to arrive to switch our electricity meter over to the solar system we’ve had installed and Craig* is in town getting his skin checked (the joys of being a young lad in Australia in the 1970s with next-to-no use of sunscreen), so I’m trying to entertain Fern until the bloke arrives.  So far she’s chewed the corner of her bed blanket, jumped on our bed and barked at the hooded plovers who are raising their young on our front lawn.

I’m assuming my next ‘to do’ will be to welcome the technician, hang out some washing and take Fern on our lovely long daily walk which includes a stop at the off-lead dog park.  This takes us around two hours and leaves us both tired enough for her to sun herself in my study and for me to look up any viable Hobart part time job vacancies and do some housework.

2.  What are the must-sees in your area?

We’re a lovely walk from Bellerive Oval in Hobart and the beaches and views are magnificent.  The place is full of off-lead dogs from 6am to 10am but there is also a gorgeous beach track alongside the beach that our new family member, Fern, loves to trot along and sniff.  We tend to turn around at the stadium and go home via the off-lead dog park where she runs herself ragged with joy at meeting every single breed, size, shape and personality of dog you could think of.  The remaining walk back is much more relaxing and less tugging on the lead because she’s tired and happy.  As am I.  At the end of such a day, the steps and distance on my iphone tell me we’ve done around 10km or 14,000 steps.

3. What is your favourite quote?

Be like a dog: kick some grass over that shit and move on.

4. What was the last thing you cooked or ate?

I’d have to cast my mind back to anything I cooked unless you count making coffee or putting toast on. I really dislike cooking and simply do not have that practical and creative ability to open the fridge and pantry, see the ingredients and create a great meal.  So, if not breakfast, the last thing was a chicken curry that Craig cooked.  I’m more than happy to be the kitchen cleaner afterwards.

 5. What is something you learned from your grandparents?

My grandfather, who died in 2006, had an enquiring and open mind right up until he died.  He was witty, extremely kind and knew, the second he opened his front door, that Craig and I were going to tell him that we were engaged to be married.  About a week before he died, he told me that he never understood why gay people were not allowed to marry.  If I inherit even one percent of his character, I’ll be happy.

When he retired from school teaching in 1976, he said to me, “I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up,” but continued playing tennis until he was 89 and starting up beekeeping and wood turning as his hobbies. He always wanted to know what book I was reading and would duly visit the Norwood library to get a copy so that we would have our own mini book club. God I miss him.

 6. What makes you happy?

Craig.  He is kind, funny, smart, creative, a bit of a perfectionist (but aware of it) and is realising that swearing whilst putting together old IKEA furniture after several moves is not his finest moment. He is brilliantly playful and loving with all of the dogs we have been lucky enough to have in our lives and is great at telling me how much he appreciates what I do for him.

Tess. Milly. Felix. Fern.  All the dogs we’ve had in our lives.  Each one completely different from the other, yet all of them full of love, trust, enthusiasm and comfort.

 7. What is your best travel memory?

That’s a tough one, because the twelve years we were in Europe we tried to make the most of the opportunity to travel as often as we could and went beyond Europe to the US and Kenya.  But traveling to Paris for an easter weekend on my own as a 23 year old in 1991 who’d been given a few days off from her housekeeping job in London was pretty special.  I felt brave, loved everything I saw and ate and proud of my young self for going alone even though none of my friends had the time or money or interest to go. I was determined not to miss out.

 8. What’s the weather like today?

16C here in Hobart, but overcast. Perfect for a long dog walk.

 9. Share an interesting fact that you’ve learned

Apparently Tasmania has the cleanest air in the world.

 10. What is your favourite book, movie or band!

ABBA. Forever. Always.

When Harry Met Sally. Incredibly witty and anytime it’s on TV, I get hooked in. When Harry is telling his best mate at a baseball game that his wife has left him and betrayed him, they still get up and do the Mexican wave. One of so many gems.

To Kill a Mockingbird – both of its time and ahead of its time

 11.  Write your favorite poem or haiku?

Even though I studied English literature at university, I dreaded poetry and any exams or essays requiring an explanation or appreciation usually produced my lowest grades. However, I do remember really enjoying the poems of the Australian Bruce Dawe in high school.  I will allocate most of that understanding and appreciation due to the teaching skills of my teacher, Glen Chamberlain, who could explain things so that I could ‘get’ them and see more in them.

 12. What is a local festival or tradition from your area?

Well, we arrived in Hobart in June, or the winter Equinox, when Dark MoFo was in full swing.  They have a nude swim that thousands participate in, many avant garde and ‘challenging’ live burlesque performances, a huge blazing light that pierces the night sky and a sort of ‘oogie’ monster that you put a piece of paper listing your worries and fears in and they burn it at the end of the festival.  We were a bit too jetlagged and overwhelmed to do much other than wander around during the day but maybe we’ll go to a few events next year. But NO, the nude swim is not on the cards for me!

13. What was the best thing you learned in school?

Friendships and laughter are so important. To have some mates you could just look at in class and they’d ‘get’ what you were trying to say, to know that you were suffering the same idiots and show offs in each lesson and could have a good laugh in the break afterwards.  Perhaps it was after school that I learned the most about being in school.  High school is NOT the highlight of your life, nor anywhere near the best days of your life. It is about the stress of fitting in, being terrified of being singled out for ridicule or considered too daggy to be noticed.  Fitting in and yet not being noticed is an anomaly of course, but so is being a teenager.

12 responses to “Belated Sunday Stealing”

  1. Love your writing. Interesting snip bits in your life too. Your Grandad sounded a great person.

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    1. Thanks, Diane. I have an older piece I wrote about him when he was in his final stages at the retirement village, but in reality, John Herbert Read deserves a novel. xo

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  2. I will answer here as I seem to be unable to leave comment on your blogsite.First: Swearing while putting together Ikea furniture is mandatory. Second: Fern is gorgeous and will calm down as she ages. About ten years from now. Get some rawhide or pigs ear chews to save her from eating her blanket. 1: today I cleared out yet another set of drawers and threw out things i’d been keeping but couldn’t remember why. only two desk drawers left to go through and the “house” is done. Of course the pantry still needs sorting…. 2: My area has “must-sees”? huh. I should probably leave the house more.  3: my favourite quote: mistakes were made, let’s move on 4: the last thing I cooked was a microwaved bowl of porridge for breakfast. 5: I never knew my grandparents so didn’t learn anything from them. 6: what makes me happy? beaches; listening to music; dancing around to said music, although it can’t truly be called dancing; reading, (books and blogs); my twin grand daughters and all the other, older grandies; chocolate; those precious few minutes after cleaning my home before the cat runs in and sheds hair everywhere. 7: my best travel memory? the take-off and landing part of the few flights I’ve had.  8: weather here today is a sunny blue-sky 24C 

    9: an interesting fact I’ve learned? It’s okay to be alone, to do things alone, go places alone. 10: favourite book, movie or band? Tough choice, I like so many. Book: Gypsy Lady (fiction) by Shirlee Busbee; movie: Fool’s Gold (rom-com, but I probably watch it more than any other) Band: too many. 11: poems and haikus are impossible, can’t do them, don’t understand many of the long-winded poems that literature lovers are fond of.  12: Well, there’s the Oktoberfest, which oddly enough is held in September and I never go, there’s an annual kite flying festival at Semaphore beach which I have seen a couple of times, but most of the “kites” these days are inflatable something-or-other. Locally, there’s a Farmer’s Market once a month which is more fun if you don’t go every time. 13: the best thing I learned in school is that I didn’t need everyone to like me, I don’t need everyone’s approval to be me. 

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    1. Yes, it is okay to be alone and do things alone. That is a much better and braver option than staying home and missing out on something you’d really have loved to have seen or done. You’ll be pleased to know I’m off to get some pigs ears for young Fern as soon as I press ‘send.’ The ‘indestructible’ hard toys are easily destroyed and then she swallows bits of them which worries us a lot. Our floors are confettied with rope strings, the innards of soft toys, sometimes limbs of those toys, plastic chunks of chew balls and, to my dismay, a rather damp and hole-filled pair of my old Explorer socks!

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  3. Your grandfather sounds like a total gem. I never knew any of mine, but wish that I had one just like yours.
    School days the happiest days of your life? Queue hysterical laughter. If ever I was given the ability to go back in time it would be a snowy day in hell before I would contemplate that one. Early thirties perhaps, when I learned that I am not stupid.

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    1. I think you’re right about the early thirties but now that 55 is approaching, I realise that I no longer fret or care about make up or fashion or what the right look is and this invisibility is rather freeing. Finding a job at this age, however….

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  4. Interesting read and I do remember those days of sunbaking in our State without any cream whatsoever.
    You grandfather sounds as if he was a lovely man and he did leave an impression on you it seems, a good one.
    Take care…
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    1. He really was what they’d call a ‘good old stick.’ I have an upcoming story about him from his final few days at the nursing home, but I hope to write more about him in the future.

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  5. Grandparental memories can have such a special place in our hearts.
    Yes, I am now paying the price for no skin protection when I was young.
    I would have thought it easier to reconstruct Ikea furniture without dubious instructions and a list of bolts and bits that worry you greatly when they are left over.
    It is probably true about your air but it is usually qualified by the west coast. Can you think of anyone who would have knowledge in this area?
    Many years ago I had a really good look at Bellerive Oval. It is beautiful, in a beautiful setting. Last weekend perhaps I read about the battle over the new AFL stadium. The power and blackmailing tactics of the AFL made me cross.

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    1. I’m ‘For’ having a Tassie AFL but the astrononical costs of building a new stadium on the ‘right’ side of the river when Bellerive Oval is brilliant and could have be modernised a tad for a fraction of the cost of a new one really concerns me. I can see already that Tassie is desperate for better health and social services, so if people are annoying at crossing the river and having nowhere to park their cars for a footy game, then put on more buses and suck it up.

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  6. I love the sound of your grandfather. He sounds amazing.

    I believe they’re giving DarkMoFo a rest next year – which is a bit of a pity. I need to get back to Tassie soon – love it down there.

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    1. Yes, they are ‘resting’ it next year which is sort of understandable because most things were in the evenings and, as we discovered, most pubs and restaurants finish serving food and 8pm and the place is empty by 8:30pm so people can go home and get warm! A small consolation (not for me, mind) is that the nude swim is still going to happen.

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